tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2754746529923019195.post2977437169037031670..comments2024-03-21T21:21:38.805+01:00Comments on 20mm and then some....: Welcome to the wonderful (and expensive) world of 28mm AWI CANCELLEDGunbirdhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00901545363558114083noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2754746529923019195.post-84232273738803793752015-09-24T21:11:32.085+02:002015-09-24T21:11:32.085+02:00Dat was een interessant stukje om te lezen. Geven ...Dat was een interessant stukje om te lezen. Geven en nemen inderdaad :)Gunbirdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00901545363558114083noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2754746529923019195.post-69685303302611684842015-09-24T01:36:28.775+02:002015-09-24T01:36:28.775+02:00Deze link kan misschien helpen: http://www.spikeyb...Deze link kan misschien helpen: http://www.spikeybits.com/2015/09/codex-amore-tips-on-having-a-hobby-a-relationship.htmlMr JSW Boorsmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07697785559664547425noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2754746529923019195.post-78615021119179578032015-09-20T19:48:29.359+02:002015-09-20T19:48:29.359+02:00That sounds really bad.
My wife actually support ...That sounds really bad. <br />My wife actually support me in painting and playing, as long as I clean up afterwards. Nevertheless, my hobbycorner is a mess, something she, together with my bad collecting habit, often frowns upon.<br />Apart from hobbies, chores, children and work we have one saturday night going out together to have some quality time together and talk things through over a meal. <br />You both went through a rough time, perhaps having a day together will clear a lot of the bad air.Wouterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17271989973988511989noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2754746529923019195.post-34204746667342429252015-09-18T14:22:53.444+02:002015-09-18T14:22:53.444+02:00I have just started in the hobby, and my wife thin...I have just started in the hobby, and my wife thinks it is endearing, giving me a "boyish charm" I think. But even with that support, I have proactively really constrained myself. I try to keep it easily packed away and modular and have more than once checked myself from going off on an unrealistic project. I would point out that it IS a hobby where she knows where you are at least!! Certainly better than bar hopping or golf. Good luck.dalerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04082935500515373099noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2754746529923019195.post-87654999266704296522015-09-18T13:11:50.135+02:002015-09-18T13:11:50.135+02:00Where on Earth does your wife's friend think s...Where on Earth does your wife's friend think she got the right to interfere in your relationship and the running of your household together!?! <br />It seems to me, from the way you describe it, that "friend" is using your wife to act out her own grievances with you, through her. Which, in my eyes, makes her a hazard to both your and your wife's (mental) well-being.<br />She probably convinces/justifies herself that she is acting in your wife's "best interest" but making you more miserable will not make Kim feel better!<br />Seems the deal is easy, sure, you get rid of some of your (unused) hobby stuff, she gets rid of a certain "friend"...<br />(Sorry, not my usual mild-natured response, but I care about you both and this sort of destructive interference pissed me off something fierce.)<br /><br />Maybe you (both) have been focusing too much on taking care of each other rather than caring for each other? When the going is hard it's an easy trap to fall into survival mode and "fixing" problems/each other and to forget to pay attention to each other and what made you love one another in the first place.<br />Perhaps it is a good idea to spend some time together, apart from others, and reconnect, so you can stand together, rather than apart? Seal the cracks so there is no room for a certain wedge...<br />Modhailhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09501755346409102920noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2754746529923019195.post-30287291254387250982015-09-18T01:10:24.797+02:002015-09-18T01:10:24.797+02:00She presumably doesn't know enough about your ...She presumably doesn't know enough about your stuff to identify if you've got shot of two thirds of it - keep going at your own speed, move some stuff around occasionally to give the impression of industry, and focus on making your relationship better by cuddling rather than selling your hobby stuff...<br /><br />My wife is reading this over my shoulder, so I have to give a disclaimer that ladies are always right and we are dumb dumbs for buying little men (that should cover me)myincublisshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10821486616924046474noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2754746529923019195.post-32918157598257502072015-09-18T00:57:55.849+02:002015-09-18T00:57:55.849+02:00I feel for you, kind of doing the same thing mysel...I feel for you, kind of doing the same thing myself with local sales of some of my old stuff. With the dog sick, work paying next to nothing and hunting for a new home. I have had to put a halt on a lot of my hobby projects.<br />At least my GF knows, about my hobby and even takes part in the odd board game from time to time. But I do have to much stuff and its really taking over the house. Combine that and my library of books, I could probably open up a shop!<br />But hang in there man, as things get better with life, money and work. She will come to realize that us men never grow up. We all have are toys, whether its cars, boats, motorcycles etc. And she will ease up. <br />I watch many of my friends in town blow there money on "grown up" hobbies all the time, and they are just as broke as me so its all what your poison is.commissarmoodyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17453787431294606707noreply@blogger.com